When I was single, like many singles the world over, I had a clear picture of the kind of woman I wanted to be waking up to see. And I got what I desired!
But did you know that my wife is not the only woman who possesses the ‘reasons'(attitudinal, spiritual, physical, etc) for which I married her?
If those attributes I saw were strong enough for me to chase, propose and marry her, what happens if I meet some other woman with those same attributes?
This is my point: I have a ‘spec’ for the kind of woman that makes me go weak at the knees. My wife is evidence of that. But there are possibly a thousand other women with my ‘spec’ qualities!
If I meet anyone like that as a colleague, with whom I work closely together every day, naturally, I get attracted, right? And if I throw caution to the wind around her, I guess you know what may likely result, especially if she fancies me too…disaster!
This is one reason married men and women at the workplace can’t afford to lose their guard. Especially if their ‘spec’ is someone they work closely with. Believe me, it does not matter that you are a Christian. Don’t allow the enemy to trip you up!
“Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong”. 1Cor.16:13
Written by: Sola Sorinolu, (Christian Educator, Writer, Speaker, and Columnist)
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